FINDING HAPPINESS STARTS WITH YOU.

08 agosto


I can't even remeber the last time I was into hoop earrings.. but I'm clearly (slightly) into them again, not sure how long this will last but I'm loving it in the time being! Recurring fashion trends are the best.

Anyway, that's not the topic of today's post. I'd like to get on a bit more personal of a level today.
I don't tend to revolve my blog around any negative issues of my life only because I'd like to keep it a safe and happy place to express myself in a creative way and share my thoughts and passions.

But to be honest, the last few weeks were a bit rough though, I won't go into much detail but let's just say it included two broken hearts, lots of sleepless nights and endless cries. There's also a new baby in the house (who you'll meet very soon), which isn't even nearly a bad thing but it does require lots of work and helping out with family where I'd need the energy and mood I haven't had lately.
I could safely say I lost my hapiness at the time. But I've been trying damn hard to get it back.

Personally I don't think that hapiness is a 'gift' you recieve for a lifetime after something specific you've accomplished. It's not accurate to say "I'll land this job, then I'll be happy" or "I'll be happy when I turn 18" and certainly not "I will find true happiness the moment I won't need any help from others" No, be happy now.
The thing about happiness is that it's in the moments that come and go, the little things. Learn to find it in a hug, a kiss from your mom, a smile or a new passport stamp.
It's also known to live in your mindset. They way you think and the way you act. If you want to be happy try to stay positive, eveything is temporary and all will pass, even if it doesn't feel like it at the moment.

To be truly happy you need to let go of everything that hurts you, even if you don't want to or don't see it at first. Live in the moment and even though you always hear you have to put other first, being selfish sometimes is ok too. You never see anyone sad making others happy. Don't be afraid to say no when the time comes.
I'm obviously guilty of some (if not all) of these things but I'm practicing what I preach and just trying to be a better person than I was yesterday. Hope it helped some of you out.
What do you do to achieve happiness in your life? Leave me a comment below!


Have a lovely monday and remember to stay cheerful always :) ♥



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No puedo ni acordarme la ultima que me gustaban los aros grandes tipo argolla.. no se cuanto va a durar esto por ahora los estoy amando! Y como la moda siempre vuelve.

Aunque ese no es el tema del que quería hablar hoy. Me gustaria ponerme a un nivel mas personal. My blog generalmente no gira en torno a pensamientos o situaciones negativas de mi vida solo porque me gustaria mantenerlo un lugar seguro y feliz para expresarme de manera creativa y compartir mis pensamientos y pasiones.

Pero estas ultimas semanas fueron difíciles. No voy a entrar en detalle pero digamos que hubo dos corazones rotos, muchas noches de insomnio y llantos inevitables. Tambien hay un nuevo bebe en la casa (a quien van a conocer muy prontito), que no es para nada algo malo solo que si requiere mucho trabajo y ayudar a la familia donde necesitaria la energia y el animo que no estuve teniendo ultimamente.
Tranquilamente podria decir que perdi mi felicidad en el momento. Aunque estuve intentando como loca recuperarla.

Personalmente, no creo que la felicidad sea un ' regalo' que recibis por el resto de tu vida despues de cumplir algo especifico. No existe el "voy a conseguir un trabajo y luego sere feliz " o "una vez que cumpla 18 sere feliz " ni mucho menos el "voy a ser feliz cuando no necesite de nadie". No, se feliz ahora.
Lo que pasa es que la felicidad se encuentra en los momentos que van y vienen, las cosas pequeñas y nunca durara una eternidad. Aprende a encontrarla en un abrazo, un beso de tu mama, una sonrisa o hasta una nueva estampilla en tu pasaporte.
Tambien suele vivir en tus pensamientos y la manera de actuar. Si queres ser feliz, intenta mantenerte positivo, todo es temporal, todo pasa, aun si parece que el sufrimiento no se acaba nunca.

Para ser feliz tenes que aprender a dejar ir las cosas que te hacen mal, por mas que no quieras o no lo veas al principio. Vive los momentos y aunque todos te digan que las necesidades de los ajenos son mas importantes, nunca nadie triste hizo a otro feliz. Ser un poco egoista esta perfecto, y nunca tengas miedo de decir que no.
Obviamente soy culpable de varias (si no todas) de estas cosas pero practico lo que aconsejo y solo estoy intentando ser mejor persona de la que fui ayer. Espero que sea de ayuda si alguien se encuentra en una situacion parecida.
Ustedes que hacen para conseguir ser felices en su vida? Dejame un comentario debajo!

Muy buen lunes y recuerden mantenerse contentos siempre :) ♥




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4 comentarios

  1. Such a great post! I needed this :) also you look AMAZING!

    Xx
    Molly
    www.trendychickadee.com

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  2. How sweet of you, thanks Molly! Glad I was of some help♥

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  3. I love your quote: It's not accurate to say "I'll land this job, then I'll be happy" ... and so on...how true! it is so important to not only just be optimistic about the future, but optimistic about the NOW! love this and it is so important to hear that again every once in a while. I am joining your blog on bloglovin' - love your style and blog!

    ciao! love, taylor
    www.ataylorstudio.com

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    1. How sweet of you! Thanks so much and I'm glad it helped.
      Thanks for following along Taylor, have a nice day xo♥

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